My question is: my parents aren’t religious; we never kept kosher or any of the festivals. Why all of a sudden are they so Jewish when it comes to whom I marry?
I have always felt an affinity to Queen Esther from the Purim story. Just like me, she married a non-Jew. And because of it she saved the Jewish people...
It seems that the more determined I am to marry a Jew, the more fantastic non-Jewish girls walk into my life. Maybe G-d is trying to tell me something?
I just want to know what crime I have committed by being a non-Jew. All her friends and family are trying to convince her out of this relationship. I think I am a nice guy. What do they have against me?
I assume you are referring to the many obstacles facing Judaism in the 21st century: the high intermarriage rate . . . assimilation . . . the crisis in the Middle East . . .
Esther did not want to be taken to the palace. Not only was she an upright Jewish girl who abhorred the notion of marriage to a gentile vile king, she was actually already married!